This is usually how I know Erin is awake. She wakes up with a question, something I need to weigh in on. It is often urgent, plaintive, and it typically hovers around this theme: “Will I die?”
You might think this a rather philosophical start to the day, an attempt to question one’s own mortality, the hard but honest truth being Yes, you will die; everyone will die eventually. But the question here is not, “Will I die eventually,” but, “Will I die right now?” I’ve found that the truth here—No, you will not—offers little comfort, so I usually just hold her hand through the rest of her concerns: “I feel like I’m dying. My legs aren’t working. I don’t think I can get out of bed. This kitty needs me to stay here. Don’t laugh when I’m being serious.”
“Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.”—Susan Cain (via quotes-shape-us)
Introverts are observant by nature. They’re the quiet ones who prefer to sit at the sidelines and observe those around them. And no, they’re not judging people when they do this. This also doesn’t mean that introverts are wallflowers. They can talk your ear off if the topic is something they’re passionate or know a lot about. They simply don’t feel the need nor have the energy to be social butterflies.
As Susan Cain puts it, “We’re not anti-social; we’re just differently social.”
I’ve only been a casual watcher of the New Adventures of Peter and Wendy, but I was really liking the ending … because you know what? The love of a good woman isn’t usually enough to change a man-boy’s ways, and Peter was an irresponsible jerk a lot of the time and Wendy needs to be with someone much better than that (if she even needs to be with anyone at all.)
It was a sad ending, but I liked it. Boys don’t change just because girls love them (ask me how I know this.) I felt bad for Wendy, but also excited for her - heading off for a new life, learning to be okay on her own.
… and then I saw that this was the end of season 1, not the entire show, which means there will (most likely) be a season 2 and they’ll get together after all and ugh.
And then I debated whether or not to put it on Tumblr…but I decided it was important. Because in my own way, I can (unfortunately) point out exactly what is wrong with men when they don’t realize how hard it is to be a woman. How we do not have equal opportunities and freedoms in everyday life….
Unfortunately, this story doesn’t surprise me. Remember, guys: no matter how pretty we are, we don’t owe you our time, attention, conversation, or smiles.
Probably unpopular opinion: while I think I understand why this last ep is the way it is, and agree that it’s probably most realistic to what Jane would do if she were real (I hate to even admit that she isn’t)…
… I found it beautiful and lovely and ultimately rather unsatisfying. :(
(Despite being pleased that this show was in the end about Jane’s growth as a person rather than a Big Romantic Relationship, I’m still allowed to wish we had resolution on that, right?)
Well I’ve written and rewritten this post more than 5 times by now.
Mostly because I’ve debated a lot about whether or not post this to begin with. We’ve never really been terribly concrete with our schedule for the sake of the story, and breaking that habit is a bit odd…